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Shaila & Thomas

Elmer Bobst Library

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10/17/2015
My recorded interview with Shaila & Thomas lasted 2 minutes and 46 seconds.

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Is there something specific that's really cool about being in an interracial couple in particular?

Thomas: The jokes about being an interracial couple.
Shaila: Yeah, we make a lot of jokes about that.
Thomas: Definitely.
Shaila: Is there anything else besides that?
Thomas: It's hard to underestimate how cool that is.
Shaila: It's pretty cool.

Shaila: I think conversations are a lot more interesting right? He's Greek and I'm Bangladeshi so it's very like we can tell each other stuff about his culture that we normally wouldn't talk about if we were both the same race.
Thomas: Yeah, definitely. Yesterday we went to a Muslim Thai place. What was it again?
Shaila: Yeah, it was a Halal Thai place. I only eat Halal food so it's kind of difficult.
Thomas: I experience a lot of stuff that I wouldn't otherwise.

What's the most challenging part about being in an interracial relationship?

Thomas: Your parents.
Shaila: Yeah parents. My parents, probably.
Thomas: Who I've never seen or met before.
Shaila: Yeah because my parents are fairly conservative but it's also a Bangladeshi cultural thing to not really introduce someone you're dating to your parents unless it's like oh this is the person you want to marry kind of thing.
Thomas: She met my mom over Skype and it was fine.

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  • Making
    • Theatre Projects >
      • Agila (2017)
      • Halo Halo (2017)
      • Stories of the Sun Cafe (2017)
      • Colored (2018)
    • The Creation Trade (ongoing)
    • Portraiture >
      • Skyler (2015)
      • Cleo (2015)
      • Sophia (2015)
      • Karen (2015)
      • Dio (2016)
      • Chivonne (2016)
      • Isabella (2016)
      • Gordon & Erika Get Married (2017)
      • Titus (2017)
    • 365 Writing Project (2015)
    • Photo Series >
      • Natural Inversions (2015)
      • City (2015)
      • Music Photography (Ongoing)
      • Uganda, in 80 Portraits (2016)
    • Si Malakas at Si Maganda >
      • The Journey
      • The Artwork
      • The Team
      • The Photos >
        • March 18th: 4th Grade Critique Group at Explorer Elementary School
        • March 18th: Community Gathering at Charity Wings Art & Crafts Center
        • March 13th: Community Gathering at Cabrera House
      • The Media
      • The Community
    • Poetry >
      • closing performance
      • zodiac lovers
    • Music (Ongoing)
    • Loving v. Virginia (Ongoing)
    • Rice Not Bullets >
      • Rice Not Bullets: Response #1
      • Rice Not Bullets: Response #2
      • Rice Not Bullets: Response #3
    • Watercolor Experiments
  • Learning
    • High Tech High GSE
    • New York University
  • Teaching